Posts Tagged ‘Slut Shaming’


On a better note: Laci Green!!! Also, idiotic YouTube conservative… “Trish” I believe? Ugh. Just make it shut up. No one picks on you because you’re a “slut” women hate you because you’re brain is the equivalent of a half-dead hamster on a rusted wheel.

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No, then an already troubled relationship was met with a temptation that it never really had the strength to resist anyway. Your significant other, instead of ending your weakened bond as he should have prior to said temptation, decided to be unfaithful. This ‘slut’ was probably innocently unaware, and even if she wasn’t, her sexual activities are none of your business. Either other way, you should be thankful that she came along. Lest you spend the rest of your life with an adulterous suitor who obviously doesn’t love you. 🙂

Ignorance is not bliss, ladies. If you’re of this opinion: how about we stop blaming the other woman, and take a long hard look at our man.

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Feminists United  (FB page I highly recommend. I am on there a lot debating, and they’ve published a few of my articles) posted an article that immediately grabbed my attention. The article was posted by a Tumblr user on her account recounting the events of her night on a train. Now, I will not give away the details as I feel it takes away from the power of the story. I just highly suggest your read the article (here) before continuing on.

Below are my comments, and any responses directed at me solely. You can view the entire conversation (here) for yourself if you wish. I’m posting this because I want to know your opinions! 🙂

My Initial Response: I visited her Tumblr, and people are actually telling her that she overreacted. I’m sorry, but some man angrily threatening your life, and demanding you preform sexual acts on him is not just a ‘jerk’ who had a bad day. This guy seems mentally disturbed. I see this man escalating, as he’s obviously mentally/emotionally immature with severe anger issues. I feel for this girl. I really do. I just wish society would stop the victim blaming bullshit. It’s her fault she’s pretty. It’s her fault for talking back. It’s her fault for being “rude.” I mean, when do we as a society stand up and say “No, it is his fault for sexually harassing, threatening, and verbally abusing this poor girl!”

My Second Response: Am I the only person who gets frustrated when they see people making suggestions on how to avoid this sort of behavior from people? I mean, putting in earbuds and laying items on your seat are helpful, yes. But, shouldn’t the focus be on retraining the mind so society doesn’t perceive this as a woman’s responsibility? I just feel that comments like that put the focus back on the woman, and victim blaming.

Lindsay, a Direct Response To Me: Tina, I agree with you. It is so frustrating to see the “I’m sorry this happened to you, but if you had been doing ____________ instead, it wouldn’t” and blah blah blah.

My Final Response Right Now: Thank You, Lindsay. I’m glad I’m not the only one. I think that no matter how a woman reacts or tries to be proactive, these things will happen because some men are animals. The proper reaction, I think, is to bring attention to these incidents via the media and make it known that such behavior is not acceptable. I know that it is my job as a future mother to teach my daughter to be strong, but my son to be respectful. I think that’s the only proactive measure a woman should have to take.

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I would like to ask that everyone report this page for the disgusting injustice it is! It claims to be “exposing hoes” as in prostitutes; however, it’s more like they’re taking private pictures meant for very specific eyes, and posting them to Facebook in the most vomit inducing manner of slut-shaming. If you’re easily enraged, like myself, I discourage you from looking further than the report button. It’s just not worth your sanity to read every single childish comment. Sickening! Just fucking sickening!

Toledo Hoe’s Exposed (Click HERE)

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Tumblr can be a dangerous place if you stumble upon the wrong person’s blog. I saw this adorable outfit on this chubby girl who is a few sizes larger than me. So, I look in the comments to see if anyone has asked where it came from. It was there that I found this reblog from this young ‘lady’ who said “This is the size I see myself as most days.” Now, I’m not all about getting young women on Tumblr lynched with negative feedback. As such, for the sake of anonymity, I’m not going to post the picture or the page of this woman. I digress, though! Let’s continue with the story: So, I visit her page out of curiosity to see if I can analyze the situation and figure out what exactly she meant by that.

People, it was a horror story over there! Pro-Anorexia images, self-hate captions, and a spray bottle stock photo that has the words “Kills Whores” on it! It was probably one of the most disgusting sites I’ve seen since the whole “Holmies” fad broke out on Facebook. There was such negativity that I honestly just had to click off the page.

I don’t understand why people, especially young women, have to hate so much! We are all beautiful, wonderful, fascinating individuals of this Earth! Why is that not enough? Why do you have to knock down a gorgeous plus sized woman in favor of feeling better about your own insecurities? What has a ‘whore’ done to you to deserve to be killed via a spray bottle like a cockroach?

I  J u s t  D o n ‘ t  G e t  I t.

I’ve made it my personal mission to search for the tag “Anorexia” and send those bloggers anonymous comments telling them how truly astounding they are, and commenting on all the positive traits I see of them via Tumblr. Maybe it will make a difference? If not, at least I tried.

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“This case involves an 11 year old girl in Texas, who was raped by upwards of 28 men/boys in an abandoned trailer. The rapes were also documented via cell phones. The community blamed this 11 year old because of “how she dressed”. This rape apologist bullshit has to stop.”

– Original Quote From Feminists United

Full Story Here

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Hey, how about adopting the radical notion of putting an end to slut shaming? Just because you’re sexually repressed by religious or moral convictions doesn’t mean you should make another woman feel like shit for being sexually liberated. Furthermore, what goes on in another woman’s flesh-muff is none of your concern. So, let’s work on ourselves and mind our own business. Kay?

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